Recent data published by the World Health Organisation about suicide in the UAE (Global School-based Student Health Survey 2010) indicates that 15.5 per cent of students age 13-15 seriously considered attempting suicide in the past 12 months, with about 13 per cent actually attempting suicide during the same period. While some believe these figures to be too high, others think they could be even higher, since suicide is less likely to be cited as a cause of death in a Muslim country. Whatever the true figure, as a parent it's important to be informed.
What makes a young person suicidal?
Teenage suicide is a serious and growing problem - in the UK it is the second-highest cause of death in young people after accidental death. "The teenage years can be an emotional and stressful time," says Clare Smart, an adolescent counsellor at LifeWorks, Dubai (www.lifeworksdubai.com). "There is pressure to succeed and young people may struggle with self-esteem issues and feeling left out." When a number of challenging factors coincide, such as sexual abuse, substance abuse, a bereavement or bullying, some teenagers feel overwhelmed and are at risk of attempting suicide. Often these teenagers have experienced depression.
Signs of a suicidal teen
Although suicide is relatively rare and difficult to accurately predict, Smart suggests parents take the following warning signs seriously:
• Talk of dying or disappearing.
• Change in personality - your child may become sad, withdrawn, irritable, anxious, or apathetic.
• Change in behaviour, poor concentration or poor self-care.
• Change in sleep patterns.
• Change in eating habits, either loss of weight or overeating.
• Loss of control, or erratic behaviour.
• Self-harm.
• Low self-esteem - feeling worthless, guilty or ashamed.
• Hopeless feelings about the future.
• Giving possessions away.
What to do if you fear your child may be suicidal
• Ask how they feel "Talking about suicide does not make it more likely to happen. It may be what the young person is looking for and they don't know how to start the conversation themselves," advises Smart.
• Be patient they may be angry or refuse to talk. Suggest they talk to someone else or try writing things down if they find it an easier way to communicate.
• Listen this is the most important thing you can do. "Treat your teenager with respect and try not to be judgemental or critical. It is important to try to raise their self-esteem," says Smart.
• Reassure explain that desperate feelings are very common and can be overcome. Things can change and people do get better.
Clare Smart talks about how she helped a suicidal teenager
"P was 17 years old when she took an overdose of paracetamol. She told her mum immediately because she was scared about what she had done. Her parents took her to the hospital where she was assessed by the psychiatrist, diagnosed with depression and given antidepressant medication.
"I initially visited P in the hospital, at her parents' request, and we agreed that she would have regular appointments of counselling as well as follow up with the psychiatrist.
"P had conflicting emotions about the suicide attempt: she felt disappointed that it hadn't worked, as she was in pain emotionally and felt hopeless about her future and her impending exams. She also felt some relief that she was OK and wanted to feel better.
"When she was discharged from the hospital, P attended regular appointments with me where she began to understand the causes of her depression and we used cognitive behavioural therapy to help P change her negative thinking about herself and her future. P began to view things more positively, she started to see her friends again, felt able to concentrate on her schoolwork and play netball.
"P felt able to take her exams and got really good grades. The depression improved and after some time P was able to reduce her medication and make plans for going to university, something she was very excited about."
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Rating: 4/5
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- The 17th Century Agra Colonnade, from the bathhouse of the fort of Agra in India
- A stagecloth for The Ballet Russes that is 10m high – the largest Picasso in the world
- Frank Lloyd Wright’s 1930s Kaufmann Office
- A full-scale Frankfurt Kitchen designed by Margarete Schütte-Lihotzky, which transformed kitchen design in the 20th century
- Torrijos Palace dome
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How to protect yourself when air quality drops
Install an air filter in your home.
Close your windows and turn on the AC.
Shower or bath after being outside.
Wear a face mask.
Stay indoors when conditions are particularly poor.
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Match statistics
Dubai Sports City Eagles 8 Dubai Exiles 85
Eagles
Try: Bailey
Pen: Carey
Exiles
Tries: Botes 3, Sackmann 2, Fourie 2, Penalty, Walsh, Gairn, Crossley, Stubbs
Cons: Gerber 7
Pens: Gerber 3
Man of the match: Tomas Sackmann (Exiles)
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2.15pm: Handicap (PA) Dh60,000 1,200m.
Winner: AZ Dhabyan, Adam McLean (jockey), Saleha Al Ghurair (trainer).
2.45pm: Maiden (PA) Dh60,000 1,200m.
Winner: Ashton Tourettes, Sam Hitchcott, Ibrahim Aseel.
3.15pm: Conditions (PA) Dh60,000 2,000m.
Winner: Hareer Al Reef, Gerald Avranche, Abdallah Al Hammadi.
3.45pm: Maiden (PA) Dh60,000 1,700m.
Winner: Kenz Al Reef, Gerald Avranche, Abdallah Al Hammadi.
4.15pm: Sheikh Ahmed bin Rashid Al Maktoum Cup (TB) Dh 200,000 1,700m.
Winner: Mystique Moon, Sam Hitchcott, Doug Watson.
4.45pm: The Crown Prince Of Sharjah Cup Prestige (PA) Dh200,000 1,200m.
Winner: ES Ajeeb, Sam Hitchcott, Ibrahim Aseel.
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Produced: Vidhu Vinod Chopra, Rajkumar Hirani
Director: Rajkumar Hirani
Cast: Ranbir Kapoor, Vicky Kaushal, Paresh Rawal, Anushka Sharma, Manish’s Koirala, Dia Mirza, Sonam Kapoor, Jim Sarbh, Boman Irani
Rating: 3.5 stars
Tips for used car buyers
- Choose cars with GCC specifications
- Get a service history for cars less than five years old
- Don’t go cheap on the inspection
- Check for oil leaks
- Do a Google search on the standard problems for your car model
- Do your due diligence. Get a transfer of ownership done at an official RTA centre
- Check the vehicle’s condition. You don’t want to buy a car that’s a good deal but ends up costing you Dh10,000 in repairs every month
- Validate warranty and service contracts with the relevant agency and and make sure they are valid when ownership is transferred
- If you are planning to sell the car soon, buy one with a good resale value. The two most popular cars in the UAE are black or white in colour and other colours are harder to sell
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if you go
The flights
Emirates have direct flights from Dubai to Glasgow from Dh3,115. Alternatively, if you want to see a bit of Edinburgh first, then you can fly there direct with Etihad from Abu Dhabi.
The hotel
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Located in the heart of Mackintosh's Glasgow, the Dakota Deluxe is perhaps the most refined hotel anywhere in the city. Doubles from Dh850
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Events and tours
There are various Mackintosh specific events throughout 2018 – for more details and to see a map of his surviving designs see glasgowmackintosh.com
For walking tours focussing on the Glasgow Style, see the website of the Glasgow School of Art.
More information
For ideas on planning a trip to Scotland, visit www.visitscotland.com
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- Flexible work arrangements
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Visit Abu Dhabi culinary team's top Emirati restaurants in Abu Dhabi
Yadoo’s House Restaurant & Cafe
For the karak and Yoodo's house platter with includes eggs, balaleet, khamir and chebab bread.
Golden Dallah
For the cappuccino, luqaimat and aseeda.
Al Mrzab Restaurant
For the shrimp murabian and Kuwaiti options including Kuwaiti machboos with kebab and spicy sauce.
Al Derwaza
For the fish hubul, regag bread, biryani and special seafood soup.
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One in four Americans don't plan to retire
Nearly a quarter of Americans say they never plan to retire, according to a poll that suggests a disconnection between individuals' retirement plans and the realities of ageing in the workforce.
Experts say illness, injury, layoffs and caregiving responsibilities often force older workers to leave their jobs sooner than they'd like.
According to the poll from The Associated Press-NORC Centre for Public Affairs Research, 23 per cent of workers, including nearly two in 10 of those over 50, don't expect to stop working. Roughly another quarter of Americans say they will continue working beyond their 65th birthday.
According to government data, about one in five people 65 and older was working or actively looking for a job in June. The study surveyed 1,423 adults in February this year.
For many, money has a lot to do with the decision to keep working.
"The average retirement age that we see in the data has gone up a little bit, but it hasn't gone up that much," says Anqi Chen, assistant director of savings research at the Centre for Retirement Research at Boston College. "So people have to live in retirement much longer, and they may not have enough assets to support themselves in retirement."
When asked how financially comfortable they feel about retirement, 14 per cent of Americans under the age of 50 and 29 per cent over 50 say they feel extremely or very prepared, according to the poll. About another four in 10 older adults say they do feel somewhat prepared, while just about one-third feel unprepared.
"One of the things about thinking about never retiring is that you didn't save a whole lot of money," says Ronni Bennett, 78, who was pushed out of her job as a New York City-based website editor at 63.
She searched for work in the immediate aftermath of her layoff, a process she describes as akin to "banging my head against a wall." Finding Manhattan too expensive without a steady stream of income, she eventually moved to Portland, Maine. A few years later, she moved again, to Lake Oswego, Oregon. "Sometimes I fantasise that if I win the lottery, I'd go back to New York," says Ms Bennett.
The specs
Engine: 1.5-litre turbo
Power: 181hp
Torque: 230Nm
Transmission: 6-speed automatic
Starting price: Dh79,000
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UPI facts
More than 2.2 million Indian tourists arrived in UAE in 2023
More than 3.5 million Indians reside in UAE
Indian tourists can make purchases in UAE using rupee accounts in India through QR-code-based UPI real-time payment systems
Indian residents in UAE can use their non-resident NRO and NRE accounts held in Indian banks linked to a UAE mobile number for UPI transactions
