The majlis: In the Year of Giving, what do you give?


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Gifts are the one of the easiest things in life to make someone happy. Who doesn't love it when you get a wrapped box or a colourful bag (or big, expensive bag)? We all love the excitement and the curiosity of opening it up. A gift almost always draws a smile on its receiver's face. But I say "almost" for a reason, because they might already have what you got them.

We live in a time where people can afford, and will always get, (almost) anything they want. So buying the perfect gift has become a challenge. I spend a few months prior to my close friends’ birthdays with my concentration on the level of “not-gonna-miss-out-on-a-word-you-say”, just to know what to get them for their birthday. I’m not saying that all of them leave me clueless, but the ones I’m closest to won’t keep anything on their wish list for long.

When I ask my other friends: “What are you planning to get her?”, one of the most common answers is: “What do you get someone who has everything?” or “I don’t know. I’m not sure what she likes.” I know I have said the same thing at least 13 times in the past seven months.

So, really, what do you get someone who has everything? Or someone who just leaves you clueless on what to get them? In college, my group of friends would agree on what to get each other on our birthdays, which is the best thing ever. We would all chip in. But now, I try asking what my friends want, in an “I’m-joking-but-not-joking” kind of way. The dreaded reply is usually: “Aww, that’s nice of you to ask, but I don’t want anything except a happy birthday”. My solution: concentration overdrive.

Personally, my favourite gifts come in the form of an experience – something to do, a memory to create. Those gifts are the ones that last a lifetime in our memories. I always pass by the place of the experience and zone out for a few minutes, remembering that day when I did something amazing for the first time. My favourite gift ever, which I gifted to myself, was a skydiving experience. I booked it for my birthday and went skydiving in Dubai with a friend.

The other favourite type of gift is the “this-reminded-me-of-you” kind, which usually comes in the form of bracelets, key chains, a shirt or maybe even a car. Anything that brought me into someone’s mind. I adore them. It’s a simple way of letting me know I was in someone’s thoughts. After all, it’s the thought that counts.

I loved it when my cousin, for my last birthday, printed out a picture of me with “I’m your biggest fan” written in the ­background – it really meant the world to me. She also once gave me a plastic genie lamp and ­Photoshopped her face onto the genie’s body. She wanted to tell me that she is always there for me. I consider that one of my favourite gifts, because it was personalised and also because it was simple, yet it had a strong meaning. I keep it in my room and I smile every time I see it, which in itself is like getting a new gift every day.

Of course, there are also presents we don’t want. I really don’t like it when people give me clothes. It makes me feel very awkward because they’re always either too big, too small, or in a style that I’d never buy because my taste would not allow it. It’s hard to pretend to like the gift when I really don’t. Unfortunately, my disappointment always shows on my face. This doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate the effort, however, just that I just feel bad for not liking it. Here’s a hint though: if you ever want to buy me clothes, go for gym clothes.

* As told to Jessica Hill

Muneera Al Hubail is a CrossFit champion and police officer who lives in Abu Dhabi.

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Moment of the day Just three balls remained in an exhausting day for Sri Lanka’s bowlers when they were afforded some belated cheer. Nuwan Pradeep, unrewarded in 15 overs to that point, let slip a seemingly innocuous delivery down the legside. Babar Azam feathered it behind, and Niroshan Dickwella dived to make a fine catch.

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Distance covered: 160km

Temperature: -40°C

Weight of equipment: 45kg

Altitude (metres above sea level): 0

Terrain: Ice rock

South Pole stats

Distance covered: 130km

Temperature: -50°C

Weight of equipment: 50kg

Altitude (metres above sea level): 3,300

Terrain: Flat ice
 

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6.30pm: Handicap (Turf) | US$175,000 2,410 metres

7.05pm: UAE 1000 Guineas Trial Conditions (Dirt) $100,000 1,400m

7.40pm: Handicap (T) $145,000 1,000m

8.15pm: Dubawi Stakes Group 3 (D) $200,000 1,200m

8.50pm: Singspiel Stakes Group 3 (T) $200,000 1,800m

9.25pm: Handicap (T) | $175,000 1,400m

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Feeding the thousands for iftar

Six industrial scale vats of 500litres each are used to cook the kanji or broth 

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The rice porridge is poured into a 500ml plastic box

350 plastic tubs are placed in one container trolley

Each aluminium container trolley weighing 300kg is unloaded by a small crane fitted on a truck

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4pm: Mahab Al Shimaal Group 3 | US$350,000 | (Dirt) | 1,200m
4.35pm: Al Bastakiya Listed | $300,000 | (D) | 1,900m
5.10pm: Nad Al Sheba Turf Group 3 | $350,000 | (Turf) | 1,200m
5.45pm: Burj Nahaar Group 3 | $350,000 | (D) | 1,600m
6.20pm: Dubai City of Gold Group 2 | $300,000 | (T) | 2,410m
6.55pm: Al Maktoum Challenge Round 3 Group 1 | $600,000 | (D) | 2,000m
7.30pm: Jebel Hatta Group 1 | $400,000 | (T) | 1,800m

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Sand storm

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  • Duration: Short-lived, typically localised
  • Travel distance: Limited 
  • Source: Open desert areas with strong winds

Dust storm

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  • Visibility: Hazy skies but less intense
  • Duration: Can linger for days
  • Travel distance: Long-range, up to thousands of kilometres
  • Source: Can be carried from distant regions
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4pm: Mahab Al Shimaal Group 3 | US$350,000 | (Dirt) | 1,200m
Winner: Drafted, Pat Dobbs (jockey), Doug Watson (trainer).

4.35pm: Al Bastakiya Listed | $300,000 | (D) | 1,900m
Winner: Divine Image, Brett Doyle, Charlie Appleby.

5.10pm: Nad Al Sheba Turf Group 3 | $350,000 | (Turf) | 1,200m
Winner: Blue Point, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.

5.45pm: Burj Nahaar Group 3 | $350,000 | (D) | 1,600m
Winner: Muntazah, Jim Crowley, Doug Watson.

6.20pm: Dubai City of Gold Group 2 | $300,000 | (T) | 2,410m
Winner: Old Persian, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.

6.55pm: Al Maktoum Challenge Round 3 Group 1 | $600,000 | (D) | 2,000m
Winner: Capezzano, Mickael Barzalona, Salem bin Ghadayer.

7.30pm: Jebel Hatta Group 1 | $400,000 | (T) | 1,800m
Winner: Dream Castle, Christophe Soumillon, Saeed bin Suroor.

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  • Insurance coverage for optical, dental, alternative medicine, cancer screening
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Clinical psychologist, Dr Saliha Afridi at The Lighthouse Arabia suggests three easy things you can do every day to cut back on the time you spend online.

1. Put the social media app in a folder on the second or third screen of your phone so it has to remain a conscious decision to open, rather than something your fingers gravitate towards without consideration.

2. Schedule a time to use social media instead of consistently throughout the day. I recommend setting aside certain times of the day or week when you upload pictures or share information. 

3. Take a mental snapshot rather than a photo on your phone. Instead of sharing it with your social world, try to absorb the moment, connect with your feeling, experience the moment with all five of your senses. You will have a memory of that moment more vividly and for far longer than if you take a picture of it.

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- margarines and spreads; cookies, biscuits, pastries, cakes, and cake mixes, breakfast cereals, cereal and energy bars;

- energy drinks, milk drinks, fruit yoghurts and fruit drinks, cocoa drinks, meat and chicken extracts and instant sauces

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